Brendan, I'm at about the same stage. I'm comfortable bringing the plane in but recently we've had such strong cross winds that he won't let me go solo. I did a few landings in 12 to 15kt cross winds but they were untidy and he wants me to land and keep it within 1.5m of the centre line. I can't do that consistently in a crosswind so I gave it away and came home to work on the plane. I understand what you're saying about the flaps, it's just another thing to add when your hands and feet are busy.
On the last day we had low clouds, frequent showers and a strong crosswind so we headed down to the training area away from the circuits. We practised steep turns, 45°, spiral decents and spiral stall recovery. It was a lot of fun and a great way to finish off my couple of weeks in Perth.