So, following the factory manual proves correct. you can reduce the "bearing crush" to reduce the bigend clearance. I set the big end clearance at 0.04-0.05mm and got a bearing "crush" of 0.05 -0.08mm which is exactly what I wanted. It did take an hour for each big-end. But that's ok.
Concerning Jabiru engine assembly.
It's not rocket science, it's not laboratory work, you don't have to normalise rod temps or anything extreme. Just Be Clean, Be Careful, Measure Carefully. Wear gloves ( graphite is a bastard to get off ) . Follow the manual and it will be fine.