How can you possibly believe that offensiveness is only about the receiver of the words interpretation?
So you believe it is the fault of the person been insulted if they take offence?
On that basis, anything racists say is ok, it their fault for been offended.
What about rape victims? Your logic would make them to blame as well if upset.
I suggest you grow some and take responsibility for your words. You say the words, you own their results.
In the modern parlance of politics, does that pass the pub test?
No, you might get a big punch in the gob for been a offensive twat.
Not that I think violence is the answer.
You are welcome here if you are constructive and respectful.
Please think before replies.
Or, should I revert to my teaching days and ask you to sit in the naughty corner until you learn to play with others?
Yes, I happily accept my words have consequences.
Now please have quiet think and then choose your words carefully.