has anyone out there ever lost there confidence to fly?? i seem to have owing to some things that happened while flying , while doing the right thing i missed seeing two aircraft flying towards me how come ?? , then same thing happened another flight a helicopter left the airfield with all correct departure calls i knew where he was but i could not see him till he shot past me just below me , now this has happened 4 times and has freaked me out as i am a very cautious pilot may be to cautious, has anyone had this happen to them i have about 45 hours solo , and i am on the point of selling my aircraft because of it help !!!!!!!!!