IMO, firstly I would not recommend learning by flight sim at home as there is no feel (A key factor for piloting an aircraft).
A home P.C sim can help with basics but as for the real thing NO comparison.
With NO Stick pressure you can pick up bad habbits like over controlling for one...,
Also with No real Danger one can get pretty confidant quickly and the mistakes go un noticed...
But on the other hand I bet the old school pilots back in the day sure wished they had a flight sim..!!Believe me....Jack Flyer envies these home PC flight sims. Better than just jumping in fresh and going for it..well ???? the outcome looks like it could be the same....
Like you stated ,,,,,,now days (here too )one requires at least 5hrs real flight training..
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