Hey Darky.
We have a set of Bose X headsets. Now there are those out there that will go on about them, but we fly long distances (from South to North) quite a bit, and they are extremely comfortable around the ears and quite lightweight for the 5-7 hour trips that we do, and even though they ARE pricey, I would like to recommend them on THOSE qualities.
There are of course other sets out there more affordable under the 1k price tag, but may I suggest you try a pair of headsets on, and go from there? Personal preference for all.
Hope this helps
-Linda