Hi Geoff.
Mate, thanks for the frank and open discussions on how you have been feeling during the various stages of your training. It really helps your Instructor (and other instructors that listen) if he/she knows how your feeling about something. The most difficult student to 'read' is a quiet one.
I have been watching this thread with interest, and I noticed your comments re the rudder, but being a forum what usually happens when an instructor offers some sort of "advice" is it gets picked to pieces by every man and his dog who ever sat in an aeroplane. So lately there hasnt been much practical advice given by some of us.
With all that in mind. I have a question. Why have you flown so many types? I couldnt think of more different aircraft types, The foxbat to a J230, then onto a 160 and a drifter.
My concern would be that without fundamentals being "programmed" in first, you could be wasting a fair amount of emotional and financial fee's (so to speak)
Having experience on different types is a fantastic thing, and should be encouraged. IMHO, this should only be incorporated AFTER you have a good solid skill platform in one type.
Thats just my opinion by the way, so please dont get me in the poo with your instructor...lol..