Frank,
I could not agree more with your point of view. It is up to everyone to try to see the positive side of every situation and even when crashing,try to fly it down as long as possible into the crash. when confronted with a very difficult situation in my life, it is when I stop feeling a victim and start thinking and pushing hard against the problem that things tend to somehow start aligning to a better outcome than expected. These days, I find myself trying to change from feeling a victim to feeling a part of the solution as soon as possible every time.
Today it is my 43th birthday and I went flying with an old friend from my years flying remote controlled models of airplanes. His name is Rafael. He recently celebrated his 70th birthday. He wanted to fly to celebrate and that we did.
Good landings to every one!