I have this argument every day.
Drivers complaining about being forced to do stuff they are not comfortable with.
My answer is always the same, just don't do it.
There are no buts or what ifs, if it is not legal or not safe do not do it.
If enough people stand up for what is right we all win.
And before anyone says it is easier said than done, it is easy to do.
I have lost so many customers because I refused to run overweight or over hours etc, but the customers that I keep are bloody good ones.
I have what I call the Grandfather test, when I do something with a truck or any vehicle, I ask myself this question,
"Would I drive this down the street where my Daughter is dropping my Grandkids at school?"
If the answer is no then it simply does not move.