Always surprises me that a technical pursuit like aviation has a relatively large streak of conservatism. Cirrus, after a fairly dismal period of poor accident rates in the early days, has done a lot about training pilots converting onto the aircraft and last time I looked at stats, was doing better than comparable older designs and had been for several years. There is plenty of factual information available on the spin certification issue, without having to rely on old wives tales or posts from enthusiasts. Short story is they are perfectly capable of recovering from a spin, however in certain circumstances may require non-standard control inputs to do so, hence the US authorities declining at first. The BRS or CAPS as they style it, is as much a point of difference for marketing purposes, as it is a necessity for certification and as I understand it, the design could have been modified to achieve certification without it. It goes without saying that in certain circumstances you may be worse off under the chute - powerlines being an obvious concern, but it is equally true that there are circumstances where without it you're not likely to survive. It does give you the choice though.
And no, I don't have a Cirrus, not am I likely to ever want one - low n slow plus short grass strips is more where my interests lie, but I do admire someone who has taken on the established big boys at their own game and made a success of it. Vive la difference'!