You should be looking at the aeroplane, not the lady!!
But yes, it does get easier, though easier may be a bad term... one just learns how to cope with the situation and fly the aeroplane rather than the aeroplane fly you. I remember learning to fly the drifter when I first got started, and to keep the thing straight on the runway I could not, frustrated me to think I can't do it... but with practise and learning the correct technique it now comes almost second nature, taking off in a straight line now is an almost non event in some ways.
Just like reading, once you know the sounds and way something is said, it makes it sooo much easier (though sometimes I still can't figure it!) I think by gaining an understanding and by practise you develop the required skill to overcome the task at hand, though sometimes things will come up that causes the blood pressure to go up!