I couldn't agree with you more. I do not want to over-generalise but I have mixed with and worked with people from the United States over a lengthy time span. Two things that that I have noticed that appears to be common to the few dozen US people I have gotten to know (despite the small sample size) are:
1. they often speak a few decibels louder than.other nationalities: and,
2. that they often want 'instant' results. To back up my personal observations we only have to look at the U S: they have invented all kinds of things such as:
* automatic gearboxes.
* fast food restaurants, an idea widely exported elsewhere.
* drive in theatres, churches, weddings, etc.
* Quick Build aeroplane kits.
The people I have worked with -and mixed with- frequently became impatient, frustrated even, if things were not automatic or instant.
Because home made aircraft construction is neither automatic nor instant (as much of US society is), I can well imagine that many projects are left incomplete.
Having said this, I am sure that there are many patient, persevering aircraft builders who complete their aeroplanes (actually, airplanes in the USA).
The United States has a good number of things that has been brought into the world, including aviation itself.
BTW: I cannot find the survey results. I am sure that they are out there somewhere. On thing that I did come across is that home built aircraft typically take between 1,000 and 3,000 hours: Experimental Aircraft Information | EAA .