Hi All,
I am with nong, and his first post to you darky. Show your instructor these posts - it is honest feedback for him.
My students get my patter almost constantly while I watch them conduct their pre-flight. As they get better, they get to hear me less!! (but they know all the answers to the questions you asked in your post, & more).
As a student, you are the payer, & you are paying for SERVICES your instructor should be providing. Do you want to be a good pilot?
You can't get there on your own!! You NEED to get value for your money - because that will mean you will ask and therefore learn more. If you need telling a hundred times (not saying you do - it is just an example), then you should hear it 100 times.
Remember this please - "If it all goes "pear-shaped", you will recall your training. If you didn't get the training - the only thing left for you is - PANIC".
You intend to take friends for a fly, don't you? Well, you owe it to them to be the VERY best you can be - don't you think? (Imagine how you would go about telling the partner of a passenger you fatally injured exactly what happened........ !) This occurs, sometimes.
The reason I mention this is because we tend to forget that even though we have the fancy title of "Recreational Aviators", (it sounds easy, eh?), it is a fact that we are ONLY as safe & capable as we have been taught to be.
With TRAINING - it is a very safe & rewarding occupation. Push forwards, & enjoy your increasing abilities!!
Cheers for now,
Nezzie